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Managing Anger

Build awareness and learn healthier ways to respond.

Anger is a natural human emotion, but it can sometimes feel overwhelming or destructive. In counselling, we explore healthy ways to manage anger, learn how to recognize triggers and improve communication, and practice coping strategies, so you can respond to life’s stressors with greater control.

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Anger once helped humans survive physical threats, but today it often reacts to stress, fear, or hurt. Counselling helps you recognize anger as a signal, not a flaw, and gives you the tools to manage it in healthier, more sustainable ways.

Counselling supports the following:

  • Understanding the physiology of anger

  • Discovering your relationship with anger over time

  • Developing tolerance for discomfort to create space for change

  • Developing awareness of internal and external triggers

  • Learning coping tools and strategies

  • Setting and maintaining healthy boundaries

  • Becoming aware of nervous system responses

  • Developing tools for self-regulation

  • Developing respectful communication skills

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Learn how anger works, why it shows up, and how to respond differently.

  • Anger is a basic human emotion, as natural as joy, sadness, or fear. It’s part of the body’s “fight, flight, or freeze” survival response. While it once prepared us for physical threats, today it often reacts to perceived dangers like feeling hurt, stressed, or disrespected.

  • Our relationship with anger is shaped by life experiences, awareness, and coping patterns. Counselling helps you understand how anger operates, recognize your personal triggers, and develop new strategies for self-regulation. Over time, you can shift from reacting automatically to responding with intention.

  • Several factors influence how anger can show up in your life, including:

    • Nervous system regulation: a calm system creates space for tolerance

    • Sleep: good rest strengthens impulse control

    • Nutrition: regular eating can lower reactivity

    • Perspective: challenging automatic interpretations reduces defensiveness

    • Sense of safety: feeling safe internally and in relationships reduces reactivity

    • Stress: discovering ways to manage stress can reduce reactivity

  • Sessions are tailored to your needs and include evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), somatic practices, and mindfulness practices. These tools help you recognize triggers, manage stress responses, and practice new ways of responding.

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